K don’t be careful at all. Go do what you want because you are a woman and rape is wrong.
Hai, guiz. Maybe we should lay off idiosyncratic. After all, this person is just sharing with us this SUPER HELPFUL INFORMATION that not a one of us has ever heard before. Like, self-defense classes? Mace? Wearing baggy clothes that cover you from chin to toe? Not going out by yourself after dark or ever hinting to anyone, in any way, that you might at some point be interested in having sex, because it might make someone rape you? If only someone—our parents, our teachers, the media, law enforcement, judges, even strangers on the internet—had told us all these things sooner! Imagine all the rapes we might have prevented IF ONLY WE’D KNOWN!